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Welcome to a Journey of Connection and Love.
Your dreams of a deeply connected, loving partnership
are within reach on this journey together…

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THE COMMUNICATION CURE

Be Heard. Be Seen. Be Understood. A step-by-step online couples communication course where you can learn practical communication skills and tools so that you both will feel Seen, Heard, and Understood. You will be able to resolve your conflicts with ease. Bring back your spark, your laughter, and closeness and create harmony and peace between you.

 

THE LOVE BLUEPRINT IGNITE

Is our Signature Program which is for you if you are serious about creating change in your life and relationship. You are done with arguing, feeling alone and hurting each other. You have tried on your own to make changes but know its now time to take action and you want support to get back on the same page, restore your connection, reignite your spark and intimacy and have fun and laughter together again.

The Communication Cure

When you learn effective communication tools and strategies you both will feel heard, understood and able to resolve your conflicts so that you can truly feel close and connected again.

It is about time…

for you to have a happier and healthier relationship where you can talk about anything and everything in a safe, calm and authentic way.

Are you…

  • Tired of all the arguing, the silent treatment, and walking on eggshells
  • Feeling frustrated, stuck, and like you are drifting apart.
  • Not sure what to do to make things better between you and your partner.
  • Feeling like you have tried so many times to get through to your partner but nothing works.
  • Staying quiet because it’s too hard to try and talk about things.
  • Scared that you have thought about leaving your relationship.
  • Really worried about the impact your fighting is having on your relationship and your children!

You deserve to

Be seen. Be heard. Be understood.

Remember…

When you first met, you talked for hours and felt like you

really got one another.

Everything flowed and was easy.

Over time, you created a vision with many hopes and dreams for a life together filled with love, laughter, fun, and deep intimacy.

You felt like you had found your person.

You couldn’t wait to see each other at the end of the day. Your partner’s smile made your heart melt. The closeness, warmth, safety, and security you felt in each other’s arms were amazing.

You had many fantastic dreams for a loving life together that was deeply fulfilling, easy, and supportive.

You felt like you had the relationship of your dreams.

But over time, things changed… And not the way you wanted!

After years of working hard, raising children, creating a home together,
you’re feeling lonely and disconnected. Even like you are strangers living in the same house.

When you try to talk about issues, it often ends up in a disagreement or worse
an argument that results in the silent treatment and sometimes for days at a time.

Deep down, you really love your partner and really want it to work
and are willing to do anything if it will help.

You are really scared that if you don’t find a way to improve your communication and relationship soon, it will be too late and you really don’t want to break up your family and be alone.
But feeling sad, alone and unhappy aren’t the options anymore.

You know it’s time to take action and improve your communication
so that you can reconnect, rebuild and revive your relationship.

You may have tried talking to friends for advice, or read some blogs or books, but nothing seems to create long-term change.

You can’t seem to find a way to create a win-win solution for both of you.

The good news is…

 

Communication can be easy and fun!

Introducing

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A step-by-step online couples communication course where you can learn practical communication skills and tools so that you both will feel Seen, Heard, and Understood. You will be able to resolve your conflicts with ease. Bring back your spark, your laughter, and closeness and create harmony and peace between you.

This is for you If you…

  • Really miss being close and connected and want your best friend back.
  • You want to be safe to share how you really feel and be able t talk about anything without being worried it will start an argument.
  • Wish you could be on the same page and work as a team again.
  • Long to rekindle your spark and intimate bond.
  • Deeply want to feel secure and confident in knowing you have got this no matter what challenges come your way.
  • Yearn to feel loved, treasured and valued by your partner again.
  • Are ready to do better, and be better – making your communication and relationship great again.

When you enroll in

The Communication Cure

you’ll receive:

4 weekly 1 hour classes
Where you will learn the practical tools and strategies to transform your communication. Each class is recorded so you can view in the comfort of your own home at your leisure. Each class is designed to build on the previous and allows you to learn easy to absorb bite-size chunks. Making your learning experience inspiring, easy and fun.
Downloadable and Printable Cheat Sheets and Handouts
For you to keep forever .
12 Months Unlimited Access
You will both have unlimited access to all the recordings and resources for a 12 month period.
Implementation Homeplay Exercises
These are designed to assist you to put into practice your new tools, skills and practical strategies into action. This is a very important stage as nothing changes if your actions don’t change. You will have simple and effective homeplay exercises each week to assist you to take action and put what you have learnt and into practice.
An Individual Membership
Individual membership for each of you. So you can review the classes as many times as you wish and at the time that suits you best.
Bonus Guides
For you to learn practical ideas and tools in other areas of your relationship too. Some topics are Date Nights, Releasing Resentment, and Is Saying Sorry Enough?

Couples Price

$347

 

After completing the Communication Cure course, you will…

  • Be able to listen deeply to each so that you both feel Seen, Heard and Understood and have difficult conversations with more ease.
  • Feel closer and connected to each other.
  • Be willing to share your truth knowing you are safe and will be heard.
  • Start resolving your conflicts and find resolutions that meet both your needs and are long-lasting.
  • Be more open to seeing and hearing each other’s point of view.
  • Work together as a team and be on the same page.
  • Find communication easier and your challenges bring you closer together.
  • Be best friends and support each other even when you don’t agree.
When you learn effective communication tools and strategies, you both will feel heard, understood, and be able to resolve your conflicts so that you can truly feel close and connected again.

What Clients Say…

Debb is amazing at what she does! She goes above and beyond and really helps you breakdown everything and see things with real clarity, instead of going into your own stories. It was well worth the investment even though I didn’t really have the money. I knew though if we didn’t do something drastic it would be the end of us. Better communication. Now, we are more in love than ever! Just do the program, you will not regret it!
Katy

Perth Australia

I have to say a huge thank you to you Debbrah Oxby – The Relationship Collective. With all your relationship strategies and advice, my husband and I have reconnected – with better communication. We do so much more together. We have both learned to communicate again with each other. We both took a week off for our wedding anniversary and went camping for 5 days and we had so much fun. So thank you!
N. Swengen

Perth Australia

The Love Blueprint Ignite

For couples wanting to happily stay together for life, even if you have spent the last decade arguing, sleeping in separate rooms, and at break-up point.

Deep down you know you truly love your partner and you want to stay together. 

And yet it is so easy with all the busyness of day-to-day life, children, work, business, and family to feel like you are
co-existing and drifting apart.

Does this sound familiar?

  • You’re frustrated that no matter how much you try to “fix” things, nothing in your relationship seems to be changing or getting any better
  • You’re sick and tired of the constant arguing and feeling that your partner just doesn’t listen or understand you 
  • You’re alone, lonely, and that you’re not on the same page anymore
  • You’re scared of what the future may hold if you don’t get this sorted 
  • You’re miserable and desperately unhappy, questioning if you have the will to keep going like this
  • You’re worried about what kind of role model you are being to the children and the impact your arguing and disconnection are having on them under the surface. Also how that will influence their adult relationships and generations to come
  • You’re sad that you have lost your best friend and that your connection is becoming less and less by the day

It feels like you’re poles apart. Completely disconnected. Physically. Emotionally. Mentally.

INTRODUCING

The Love Blueprint

Is our signature program which is for you if you are serious about creating change in your life and relationship. You are done with arguing, feeling alone and hurting each other. You have tried on your own to make changes but know it’s now time to take action and you want support to get back on the same page, restore your connection, reignite your spark and intimacy and have fun and laughter together again.

 

HERE’S HOW IT WORKS

The Love Blueprint

is a powerful 12 week program that is designed to give you personalised attention your relationship needs and deserves. A full day private space where you can work on your relationship with no judgement, no blame, no shame. A safe place for you to sort out whatever is going on and learn new ways of being. By devoting 12 weeks to your relationship it allows you the time to learn new skills, implement them with support and experience the transformation you both are seeking.

One of the most common complaints couples express is that they dont feel heard or understood by their partner. This is one of the first areas we cover in the program. We will get to the core of what is going on in your relationship, what each of you are feeling and what needs are not currently being met. We will up skill and empower you with the tools for change so you can transform your relationship into the one that you really want and dream of.

What I know to be true, is that it’s not that couples don’t want to do better or be better in their relationship, it’s that

THEY DON’T KNOW HOW.

If they had the tools and skills they would have already put them in place. This is exactly why I have chosen to specialise in upskilling couples in relationship tools and skills so that they can have the relationship of their dreams and have lasting love, joy and happiness together.

We are all doing the best we can with the tools and resources we have available to us at the time.

The good news is that the practical tools and skills are easy to learn. They are not rocket science but common sense. The problem is we don’t know what we don’t know. So I have developed the Love Blueprint Ignite Couples program to teach you the exact steps to creating lasting love without having to settle. 

My goal is to create deep and lasting transformation and also generational change in the area of Relationships, one couple at a time. In my signature program, we take a holistic view of your relationship and what is required to build a healthy, thriving, and flourishing life and relationship together.  

We go on a journey covering 4 Key Pillars that are required to uplevel your Relationship.

Relationship Foundation

PILLAR 1

LEARN HOW TO:

  • Bring compassion, kindness, and empathy into your relationship
  • Practice the tools that the Masters of relationships use every day to create a happy, loving and content-filled relationship
  • Build a rock-solid foundations so that your relationship can stand the test of time
  • Stop sweeping things under the carpet and start repairing  your hurts when they appear so that you become stronger and closer through your challenges
  • Create emotional safety so that you can talk about anything and everything
  • Transform negative thinking so that you can have a positive mindset about your partner and your relationship even when times are tough
  • learn how to:

  • Speak to each other in a compassionate, kind, and caring way whilst still getting your point across
  • Transform your communication so you both feel heard and understood
  • Resolve your conflicts so that both your needs can be met creating a win/win environment for everyone
  • Resentment-proof your relationship by solving your problems before they turn into hurt, shut down and stonewalling
  • Deepen your love and connection for each other daily
  • Create healthy boundaries that protect you, your relationship, and your family

Your Relationship Toolkit

PILLAR 2

Reset Your Relationship

PILLAR 3

  • Create an aligned life and relationship in accordance with your deepest vision and values – what’s truly important to you both. Not what conditioning, society, parents, or family expect of you. But what do you really want for your life and family?
  • You will spend some time having fun exploring what each of you “really” wants for your life, relationship, and family
  • Where do you want to be 1,3,5,10 years from now?
  • What do you want your relationship and life to look and feel like?
  • Start dreaming and achieving together, creating inner fulfillment and success
  • Feel safe and secure knowing you have got a plan that includes all areas of your life – health, wealth, family, career, house, holidays, fun goals, and dreams
  • Become the best you that you can be
  • Build a great relationship together daily 
  • Be great role models for your children and future generations
  • Create a secure, loving, and happy relationship and family unit
  • Get on the same page and start moving in the direction of your dreams together
  • Support each other’s goals and dreams
  • Create inner peace, contentment, and fulfillment together
  • Know that you have each other’s backs and no matter what happens in life – You have got this!

Relationship Synergy

PILLAR 4

Ignite

The Love Blueprint

It’s like walking across a bridge. You start on one side feeling frustrated, sad, alone and fed up. As you begin walking across the bridge, putting into practice your new tools and skills, you naturally start to feel your love and connection coming back. Bit by bit, with the attention it deserves, you begin reconnecting and restoring the love you have for each other. With my support and encouragement you feel confident knowing that together you can achieve anything.

 Are you ready for change?

 

 

 

 

lets get you started on your Ignite

journey now…

THE LOVE BLUEPRINT IGNITE program

Frequently Asked Questions

HOW DOES THE PROGRAM WORK?

This self-paced program consists of a series of recorded video sessions that you can access at your convenience. Each week, you and your partner will watch the video together, gaining insights, strategies, and tools.  Following each session, you’ll engage in thought-provoking homeplay exercises designed to facilitate meaningful conversations and experiential learning.

WHAT CAN WE EXPECT TO LEARN FROM THIS PROGRAM?

Throughout the 12 weeks, you’ll learn effective communication techniques, conflict resolution strategies, ways to rekindle intimacy, and how to nurture emotional connection. The program focuses on identifying and transforming negative patterns while fostering a positive and supportive environment for your relationship to thrive.

IS THIS PROGRAM SUITABLE FOR LONG-DISTANCE COUPLE?

Absolutely! The Love Blueprint Ignite Program is designed to accommodate couples regardless of their physical proximity. You can watch the video sessions together virtually and engage in the homeplay exercises through video calls or even by sharing your thoughts electronically.

HOW MUCH TIME SHOULD WE ALLOCATE EACH WEEK?

e recommend setting aside around 1 hour class time per week for the video sessions and approximately 1 hour for the homepage implementation. Keep in mind that the more you invest in the program, the more you’ll gain from it.

CAN WE ACCESS THE PROGRAM AFTER THE 12 WEEKS ARE OVER?

Yes, you’ll have continued access to the program’s content even after the 12 weeks conclude. It will be accessible to you for 12 months. This allows you to revisit the materials, reinforce your learning, and continue implementing the strategies you’ve acquired.

IS THERE ADDITIONAL SUPPORT AVAILABLE DURING THE PROGRAM?

While The Love Blueprint Ignite Program is self-paced, we offer optional support packages that include access to live Q&A sessions with our experienced counselors. These sessions provide a platform for addressing specific questions or concerns you may have as you progress through the program.

IS THERE A PAYMENT PLAN OPTION?

Yes, we never want money to stop a couple from receiving the tools and assistance they need to have the best relationship and life together. A payment plan of $550 per month for 2 installments.

WHAT IF WE EXPERIENCE TECHNICAL DIFFICULTIES OR HAVE MORE QUESTIONS DURING THE PROGRAM?

Our dedicated support team is here to assist you. If you encounter any technical issues or have further questions about the program, please don’t hesitate to contact us via email or phone, and we’ll be happy to help.

If you’ve got questions…

I might have some answers.
Let’s connect and find out!